IF LETTING GO...?

Have you ever done so much for someone, who was not worth of all this. But you still loved to do everything for them. Even if in return, you are still their nothing. But you can't let go because of the memories you had with them. Or how long you have known that person. But people always say that " let go of that person" okay. I understand letting go or walking away is the only choice or option left. But if letting go of anything just takes a moment, then you never really held onto it tightly enough. People say, holding onto something which kills us daily, is a weakness. But I believe, that to anything, to a dream, to a goal, to a person and to a place. You just let go of it little by little. And hold back on. But in the very next try, you let go of it with a little force, until you finally free yourself from it. The tighter you hold onto something, with much more force you let it go. The deeper you will dive, the higher you will fly above in the sky. The closer you get, farther you will push. The weaker you feel, the more stronger you become. Never be ashamed of your weakness. We all have them. But, just be kind to yourself. Understand yourself. Believe in yourself. You are not a bad person. Start differentiating between, your actions and your self worth. To say "you are bad" is different than saying " you made a mistake ". You can't ever fix yourself. But atleast, you can fix the mistake. Not even a single soul is perfect. Mistakes are done by all of us. We all fall at some point. And, we also have some flaws. But, we should look into ourselves, and treat ourselves as the humans who are worthy of every respect, every hope and a lots and lots of love. Do not ever just give up on your self. Get back up. Rise again. Be brave. And be the happiest you can be. And stop looking for the reasons to be unhappy. Focus on the things you have, and the reasons you should be happy.

~simarpreet kaur chandhok.